This is the best online pic i could find of the cilinder head (from huib's website)

My question is about the two place I encircled with red.
When i bought my car it looked like my valves top touched the metal part in witch that pin is that pushes it down. When the car gets hot the clicking gets worse.
can It be that my valves are just so deep in it's seats that it touches there?
I have checked al my valve clearences and made shure that they are ok and that can be the only reason for the clicking. I have recently had the head of and new valves fitted. When i got the head back the valves was that close to that metal part again. I had the valves replaced.
Will it be stupid if i tried to take the cam out and just grind away about a mm of that metal part (where the loose pin goes through that goes between valve clearence screw and the valve) so that the valve's top doesn't hit it?
OR
what are the reasons for the valve to touch that part?
thanks for any input.
Heinrich